不局限于爱情,加入对自我比如成长经历对性格的塑造,对原生家庭的探讨,和最近看的一本书《白洁高义别拔出来》可以搭配着理解。从自卑、害怕被抛弃到一点点建立自信,很有共鸣,多处戳中泪点,但非常温暖。//getting married is some kind of proof that,once and for all,she was lovable. / Instead it was quiet and calming and still. stopped wondering whether or not she was worth loving and simply cracked herself open.